What to Remember When Your Life Feels Small

　　By Deidre Braley

　　Bible Reading

　　At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them and said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” – Matthew 18:1-4

　　Does your life ever feel small?

　　Mine sometimes does. Just last weekend, in fact, I had the unsettling experience of smallness at a country concert that was featuring a major artist. As the sun sank below the edge of the stadium, the crowd’s anticipation mounted. When the singer finally ran onto the stage, donning his guitar and saluting the audience, the stadium erupted. Girls clutched each other and screamed. Phone flashlights turned into constellations amongst the pulsing galaxy of people. Tens of thousands of lips moved in unison to sing the opening song together.

　　Submerged in this world of smoke and lights and adrenaline, I had the unsettling feeling of being small. A longing began to stir deep in my belly—something like an exhilarating hunger. I suddenly wondered what it would feel like to live in this alternate reality called fame.

　　Back at home, I knew that laundry was piled on our bedroom floor, that our toddlers would be wanting pancakes in the morning, and that the dishes would be nearly toppling in the kitchen sink. My line of work, in comparison to rocking and selling out this stadium, seemed so humdrum and un-noteworthy that I could hardly stand it.

　　As it turns out, this hunger I was feeling—this longing to know what greatnessfeels like—came about long before electric guitars and jumbotrons. The disciples felt it, too. One day, they even asked Jesus, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” (Matthew 18:1)

　　Jesus didn’t name a rockstar. He didn’t list off kings, or Bible heroes, or professionals revered in their fields. Instead, he beckoned for a child to come and stand among them. “‘Truly I tell you,’ he said, ‘unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me…’” (Matthew 18:2-5).

　　Earthside, we perceive greatness as notoriety and wealth, power and fanfare. It involves beingor havingmore than someone else. But in the kingdom of heaven? Greatness looks like humility, trust, and inclusion. Greatness looks like a child, turning to the Father for everything.

　　If we align our life’s work to what the world deems ‘great,’ then our days will be filled with striving and discontentment. We’ll be ever subjected to the fickleness of humanity. But when we align ourselves with what Jesusvalues—when we humble our souls and trust in the only one that is truly great—we are able to bask in an eternal greatness that gives our souls rest and contentment.

　　So when we find ourselves caught in a pattern of discontentment, wondering when our time will come, or if anyone will ever notice us, or if our lives will ever possess that magnetic essence of greatness, let’s come back to that image of Jesus, pulling the child near and saying, “This. This is what greatness looks like in my kingdom.”

　　Intersecting Faith Life:

　　Are there moments when your life feels small? Take note of any patterns. Do you feel less than great whenever you get together with that one friendwho seems to have a glamorous, exciting life? Or do you feel discontentment bubbling whenever you spend time on social media? Once you are able to identify when, where, or what makes you feel “small,” you can develop strategies to help you fight the lie that greatness comes from what the world hails, like fame and wealth or power and position. These strategies could include:

　　Limiting how often you expose yourself to these people or situations.Memorizing Scripture to pray over yourself when you’re feeling overcome with discontentment or inferiority.Surround yourself with others whose lives model humility and surrender to the Lord.Finding solitude, then stopping to ask the Holy Spirit to reorient your priorities and remind you who are—and who he is.Further Reading:

　　Mark 10:35-45

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　　Deidre Braley is a wife and mother to three children. She is theauthor and host behindThe Second Cup, a collection of essays, poems, and podcast episodes where holiness and humanity collide. She recently published her debut poetry collection, The Shape I Take.Deidre is an editor with The Truly Co,and a contributor forThe WayBack to OurselvesandAletheia Today,among others. Her ideal dayis spent eating chocolate croissants and having long chats about writing, dreams, and theology. Connect with Deidre onInstagram @deidressecondcup.

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