If you were to ask a girl who has not yet been married about the secrets of a happy marriage, she would consider it a strange question, because she is not married or because she might give a romantic dreamy answer that embodies her dreams, ideals and needs rather than reality.

　　Hence, if we want to discover these secrets, we should ask married women who have real experience, because the answers of such women will be more credible, practical, and realistic. Their answers would be guiding signs on the way of those who have not yet married, and useful advice to wives who have not discovered these secrets and still need to reconsider their marital relationship.

　　Compliment Your Husband

　　Randa Ahmad, who has been married for 17 years, advises every bride-to-be saying,

　　- Know the weaknesses of your life partner; care for him, be thoughtful, and make him feel comfortable.

　　- Dialogue, mutual understanding, love, and confidence. A husband can have his wife at his disposal just if he says to her “I love you”. This simple phrase will make her give you all her love, tenderness and care.

　　Umm Yoosuf is a housewife who has been married for 20 years. She says,

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