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A Daa'iyah, Except in One's Own Family - II
A Daa'iyah, Except in One's Own Family - II
Jun 16, 2026 2:46 PM

  Dear caregivers and Daa‘iyahs (callers to Islam) – male and female,

  Your role is no less important than that of the other.

  Together you bring up your child with a good upbringing -- you and not anyone else.

  First: The role of the father when he is a Daa‘iyah:

  Dear father, your role is extremely important. You are the head of the house; and if your participation is missing, the house will collapse. A house without a father is like a ship without a leader or a captain.

  Dear father, I know well that you do not have enough time to even read my words. But I beg your pardon: the time that you spend at home is quite important, otherwise, you would be shocked by a smoking, stealing or lying child. Here are some practical means to help you play your role:

  1- Daily session with your family:

  Fix, say, half an hour everyday to sit with your family members, and it is better if this is scheduled in the morning, in order to give an opportunity to all the members of the family to gather together.

  Dear caregiver, make this session a daily routine for the entire family. This session should consist of the following:

  - Introducing to your children a good moral, such as altruism, and it is better if it is related to the subject of the Quranic Verse and the Prophetic Hadeeth (ten minutes);

  - The sound of the Noble Quran should never stop in your house.

  2- Teach your young daughter to be modest from her early childhood, through short stories and beautiful Nasheeds.

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